a girl,a woman,or a lady?

“Are you a girl, a woman or a lady”? Oh, that’s a real easy question to answer I thought, because I’ve always been a girl, see-sawing somewhere between Scarlett O’Hara and Calamity Jane. I get my way with girlie smiles or a lady’s raised eyebrow (never womanly wiles), and tackle chores and problems with girlieContinue reading “a girl,a woman,or a lady?”

changing narrative

In my Loving Kindness group, I posed a question about feeling resentful after backing down from an awkward situation. The man sitting opposite me said “Changing the narrative could mean that instead of feeling forced into a decision, it becomes your choice.” Is changing narrative as easy as seeing silver linings under clouds, or seeingContinue reading “changing narrative”